Writing has always been my way to work with the both/and of life, and I’ve written a lot on the topic of this loss, so you may see me sharing links as relevant in this space if I think they will help one of you feel less alone.

I don’t know much, but I do know this: I am forever changed and wouldn’t have it any other way. I’m still alive, still hopeful, still soft, still a mother, and always living for the children I’ve carried and will continue to carry with me