Memory-Making and Honoring Your Baby

We hope these resources provide compassionate support, trustworthy information, and guidance as you navigate the days ahead—one step at a time.

Many families find comfort in creating memories and honoring their baby's life in ways that feel meaningful to them. While some families appreciate traditional keepsakes, others find comfort through personal rituals, cultural traditions, creative projects, or acts of remembrance.

There is no right or wrong way to honor your baby. What feels meaningful to one family may look different for another.

• Creating Memories

  Whether your baby is alive for moments, days, or longer, you may wish to create memories together by:

  • Taking photographs or videos

  • Requesting handprints, footprints, molds, or heartbeat recordings if available

  • Saving meaningful items such as blankets, clothing, hospital bracelets, ultrasound images, or cards

  • Reading stories, singing songs, or playing meaningful music

  • Celebrating your baby's birth with loved ones

  • Incorporating cultural, spiritual, or religious traditions that are important to your family

• Honoring Your Baby

  Many families continue to honor their baby long after birth through:

  • Naming their baby and speaking their name

  • Writing letters or keeping a journal

  • Creating a memory box or scrapbook

  • Planting a tree, flowers, or a memorial garden

  • Lighting a candle on special dates

  • Wearing jewelry or carrying keepsakes that help them feel connected

  • Making donations or participating in charitable acts in their baby's honor

  • Participating in remembrance events or awareness activities

• Including Loved Ones

  Partners, siblings, grandparents, and other loved ones may also benefit from opportunities to create memories and honor your baby's life. Consider inviting them to participate in photographs, celebrations, rituals, or remembrance activities if it feels right for your family.

• Remember

  The goal is not to create every possible keepsake or memory. Some families treasure photographs and mementos, while others find comfort in traditions, stories, or quiet moments of reflection. There is no perfect way to honor your baby—only the way that feels most meaningful to you and your family.

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