Meeting and Caring for Your Baby

Many parents worry that they won't know what to do when they finally meet their baby. It is important to remember that there is no right or wrong way to spend this time. Whether your baby lives for minutes, hours, days, or longer, your presence and love are enough.

• Spending Time Together

  You may choose to:

  • Hold your baby skin-to-skin

  • Introduce your baby to family members and loved ones

  • Read stories, sing songs, or talk to your baby

  • Celebrate your baby's birth with prayers, blessings, or cultural traditions

  • Take photographs and videos

  • Spend quiet time together as a family

• Caring For Your Baby

  Depending on your baby's condition, you may be able to:

  • Hold and comfort your baby

  • Feed your baby if appropriate

  • Bathe, dress, or swaddle your baby

  • Participate in your baby's daily care

  • Create a calm and comforting environment

  Your healthcare team can help guide you through what is possible based on your baby's individual needs.

• If Your Baby Lives Longer Than Expected

  Some families are surprised to learn that their baby may live longer than anticipated. While this can bring uncertainty, it may also provide additional opportunities to bond, parent, and create memories together.

  If this occurs, your care team can help you understand available resources, support services, and care options.

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