Reagan, Spreading HOPE for Lillian Grace

Reagan Dodge, sharing her story in memory of Lillian Grace

“Lillian Grace was conceived in an assault when I was fourteen. I want the world to know that my daughter's death isn't easier, even if I wasn't prepared to parent a child. I sang to Lilly in the shower every day. It was a time where I could feel at peace. Growing into an adult is hard enough, but being a teen mother to a dead baby confuses things even more. I had to grow up extremely quickly when I found out I was pregnant. Being expected to "go back" to being a child is unrealistic. I felt like a very young 80 year old for many years and sometimes I still feel that way. My spiritual practices keep me connected to my daughter. Also I talk about her- talking about her doesn't resurrect her, but it brings her to life in my heart.”


October is Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month.
Our HOPEtober annual event honors all losses on the journey to parenthood.

Even though so many of us have experienced pregnancy or infant loss, or know someone who has, it is a loss that exists in the shadows. As bereaved parents, we feel isolated and alone. But together, we can shine a light on pregnancy and infant loss, helping others to live a life that holds both grief and joy.

HOPEtober Luminaries partner with us during the month of October to be an advocate and ambassador in spreading awareness and shining a light on pregnancy and infant loss. By sharing our stories we’re bringing awareness to pregnancy and infant loss, as well as the resources and support that exist through Return to Zero: Hope. As a nonprofit, raising awareness and funds are essential to our cause and support programs.

We'd be grateful if you you would consider making a contribution to Reagan's fundraiser in honor of Lillian Grace.. Your gift ensures that other parents who endure loss on their journey to parenthood have the support, resources, and community they need in order to navigate life after loss.

This year our goal is to raise $75,000 during the month of October so that we can continue spread hope and healing by providing resources and support to grieving families and their care providers. 

Thank you for helping to shatter the silence around pregnancy & infant loss.

Shianne GundersenComment