Board of Directors
Kiley Krekorian Hanish, OTD, OTR/L - Founder and President
Kiley is a bereaved mother and founder of Return to Zero: H.O.P.E. (formerly Return to Zero Center for Healing). She received her BA from Loyola Marymount University, and masters and doctoral degrees in occupational therapy from the University of Southern California. Kiley and her husband Sean are creators of the Emmy-nominated film Return to Zero, which is based on their personal experience of their son Norbert, who was stillborn. Her work with bereaved families helps them to find purpose, meaning, and healing after the tragic death of their baby. Kiley and Sean live in Los Angeles with their two children, Roxie and Cannon.
Deborah Clarke, EdD - Chair
Deborah works at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill in the Office of the Provost. She holds a BA from Wake Forest University, and masters and doctoral degrees in higher education administration from Vanderbilt and the University of Pennsylvania, respectively. She and her husband Walt have live in North Carolina and have three children, Emma Kate, Redding, and Eason, who was born still in 2013. In addition to her work at the university, she enjoys volunteering with several non-profit organizations, reading, writing, hiking, yoga, and spending time with her family.
Melinda Koslow Peterson, RN, MS - Secretary
Melinda is a bereaved mother, maternal death survivor, registered nurse, and environmental scientist. She is active in healing work, speaking, and volunteering. After losing her son Oak during pregnancy and almost losing her life, everything changed. While nurses empowered her journey, she too felt a call toward nursing. Her passion is integrative medicine, prevention of maternal death, and healing perinatal loss. Prior to becoming a nurse, Melinda worked as an environmental scientist for over a decade in both non-profit and government agencies, creating programs that advanced science through research and public engagement.
Stefan Lendi - Treasurer
Stefan is the Executive Director at UBS. He has served as a Relationship Manager, Managing Director, and Executive Director at other Wealth Management banking institutions, both in the United States and internationally. Stefan speaks four languages and has lived in Zurich, Geneva, Buenos Aires, New York, and Los Angeles. In his spare time, he enjoys skiing, soccer, traveling, and is a LA Kings fan. Originally born in Zurich, Stefan now lives in Los Angeles with his wife of 22 years and two teenage children.
Martha Berry Clarke, MA - Member at Large
Martha is a fundraising and communications professional with significant experience developing strategic communications programs and funding portfolios for non-profits, including Amherst College, Global Rights, InterAction, and the International Medical Corps. She holds a BA in Russian and East European Studies from the University of Kentucky and an MA in Russian Area Studies from Georgetown University’s School of Foreign Service. After twenty years in Washington, DC, she now lives in Northampton, Massachusetts, with her husband, Roger, and two daughters, Olive & Lucy. She lost her nephew, Eason, who was born still in 2013.
Kara Simmons, JD - Member at Large
Kara's desire to serve on the RTZ Board stems from her personal experience with her daughter, Madeleine Ava, who was born still in 2015. Since that time, she has tried to honor Madeleine’s memory by seeking opportunities to help other families who have been affected by similar tragedy. Kara received her BA from University of North Carolina Chapel Hill, and masters and doctoral degrees from the George Washington University. She is an attorney and looks forward to contributing her skills and knowledge.
Betsy Winter, BA - Member at Large
Through the journey of losing her daughter, Eliza, Betsy began the quest to embody the concept of the both and and-how during our darkest moments, we can simultaneously walk in the light and find moments of joy and gratitude. Betsy is a licensed Nia and Moving To Heal instructor and a perinatal death and bereavement advocate, offering movement-centered healing, ritual, and community support to those impacted by loss. She comes to the Return to Zero: HOPE board with over a decade of experience in non-profit management, board cultivation, brand development, and fundraising. Betsy provides consulting services to advance the goals of mission-driven organizations. She lives in Olympia, Washington, with her husband and two living children, Bennett and Wren.
Clinical Advisory Board
Ivy Love Margulies, PsyD
Ivy Love Margulies is a Los Angeles based clinical psychologist, certified death midwife (aka bereavement doula), reiki healer and licensed funeral director who specializes in grief, loss, trauma, and healing encompassing the entire spectrum of women's maternal health. In her own unique way Dr. Ivy blends psychology, ritual, spirituality, reiki, energy healing, guided meditation, and more to help support women, couples, and families through the grieving process. Dr. Ivy has over 20 years experience working in family and child settings. She is featured as a grief and parenting expert for Kids In The House. Dr. Margulies has presented at many conferences, written articles and has been the featured guest on several radio shows, podcasts and on television.
Christena Raines, RN, MSN, APRN-BC
Christena Raines, RN, MSN, APRN-BC is Associate Director of Obstetrical Liaison and Community Outreach at the University of North Carolina Perinatal Psychiatry. Chris is a dual trained, board certified nurse practitioner in both Women’s’ Health and Psychiatric-Mental Health and has practiced as a Perinatal Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner at the UNC center for Women’s Mood Disorders for over a decade. She was a member of the planning team instrumental in opening the 1st in-patient Perinatal Mental Health unit in the country and continues to be an integral part of training this specialized nursing staff. Chris serves on the Board of Directors of Postpartum Support International and is currently the committee chair for forming state PSI Chapters.
Elyse Springer, MA, MFT
Elyse Springer is a Los Angeles based licensed marriage and family therapist in private practice with focus on Perinatal Mood and Anxiety disorders, LGBTQIA+, trauma, anxiety, OCD, and HIV/AIDS. Prior to private practice, Elyse worked at a cross-section of community mental health organizations, including APLA Health, where she successfully piloted one of the very first programs embedding mental health in housing services in LA County. Elyse served as co-chair of LA County's HIV Mental Health Task Force for several years. For the last seven-plus years, Elyse has been teaching faculty at LA-based Maternal Mental NOW as well as Governing Council member and Governance Sub-Committee chair. She has served as a board member at large for 2020 Mom for the past nearly five years and is among the first clinicians with the national PMH-C (Perinatal Mental Health Certification) designation.
Robert Strauss, MD
Bob is a Professor of Obstetrics & Gynecology at the University of North Carolina. He moved to Chapel Hill in 1996 to complete his training in Maternal-Fetal Medicine. As a specialist in high-risk obstetrics for over 20 years, he has cared for many women who have experienced loss. In addition, through the UNC Center for Maternal and Infant Health, he helps support families with perinatal palliative care needs and their unique journey towards healing. Bob and his wife Mary have two children, Ryan and Isabella. They lost their 2-month-old daughter, Gabriella, during his medical training in 1998.
Bob Wellstein is the Co-Founder and Executive Director of Jane’s Room. Jane’s Room is a Non-Profit Organization that supports the design and development of private spaces within the labor and delivery unit of hospitals to support parents and families experiencing pregnancy loss and hardship. Bob has been instrumental in creating partnerships with Northwestern Memorial Hospital, Rush University Medical Center, Advocate Christ Medical Center, Advocate Illinois Masonic Medical Center, Northwestern Lake Forest Hospital, Northwest Community Hospital, University of North Carolina Medical Center, Advocate Lutheran General Hospital, and Children’s Memorial Hermann Hospital. Prior to Jane’s Room, Bob was Co-Founder and Managing Partner of an executive recruiting firm based in Chicago, IL.