Essential Information for Women Attending the Retreat
 

Dear beautiful mamas,

We are so glad that you will be joining us for the Return to Zero Colorado Women’s Healing Retreat at Sun Mountain Retreat Center. We are also honored to spend this special time with you.

Our hope is that the openness and sacredness of the land supports us as we open up, dig deep, move our grief, and find ways to grow and heal. 

We have put together some important information regarding the retreat. After reading it, if you have any questions do not hesitate to contact us. 

We very much look forward to meeting and spending time with all of you!  

With love,                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Betsy, Kiley, and Melinda

Important Information

Phone/text number: 360.259.3469‬ (Betsy Winter), 310.403.3856 (Kiley Hanish) or 303.725.8269 ‬(Melinda Peterson)                                                                 

Dates: June 27-30, 2019                                                                                                                                                                                                      Arrival: 2:30 - 3:30 pm on Thursday, June 27                                                                                                                                                                                    Departure: 11:00 am on Sunday, June 30

Venue Contact Information                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Sun Mountain Retreat Center                                                                                                                                                                                                                            328 El Paso Blvd.                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Manitou Springs, CO 80829                                                                                                                                                                                                                            719.205.8516

Driving Directions

Some people have issues finding Sun Mountain Resort using Google real-time navigation, causing issues for personal drivers, Lyft, and Uber drivers. Google guides drivers as if the resort is located on nearby Highway 24, when in fact the resort is on El Paso Blvd. Here are some written directions to help.

  • From Colorado Springs, head west on Highway 24.

  • There is no exit off of Highway 24 onto El Paso Blvd.

  • Take the Manitou Avenue exit, and take a right.

  • Take an immediate right to Garden of the Gods Rd.

  • Take a quick left onto El Paso Blvd.

  • You will round a mountain bend and the entrance to Sun Mountain will be on your right.

  • It is a long driveway up the side of the mountain. The resort is a large house at the top.

Link to Retreat Agenda

Sharing Your Story  

We spend the first afternoon/evening sharing our stories with each other. Opening up and being vulnerable can be scary, but there are so many rewards. 

  • First, you are honoring your child by talking about him/her and saying his/her name.

  • Your experience is validated. You are in a room with other women who have been through a similar experience and truly understand you.

  • You find a small (or large) piece of your story in everyone else’s story, which connects you all to each other. You are not alone.

  • By creating a story/narrative, you are weaving together different pieces into a whole, which allows you to make better sense of your experience.

In preparation for this, I am asking you to write a 1 page story about your and your baby’s story, which you will read out loud to the group. A one page limit may seem a bit strange—however, we have learned through experience that if we don’t limit it, the stories go on past bedtime and people are both physically and emotionally exhausted. 

Honoring Our Babies

On the first day, we will create a sacred memorial area in which to honor our babies. Feel free to bring a few items that remind you of your baby: a photo, footprints, special blanket, etc. Only bring what you are comfortable sharing—you will get to take your mementos home.

 

 

 

Facebook Retreat Group                                                                                                              If you are on Facebook, can you send me a friend request (Kiley Krekorian Hanish)? Most of you have done this, but wanted to include it here if you haven’t. I have created a private FB group for the retreat attendees so we can communicate before the retreat as well as support each other after we go home.


 

 

Items Recommended to Bring  

  • A small to medium-sized suitcase (we are sharing rooms) – however you will be taking some extra items home with you, so leave a little extra space

  • You will be taking home a yoga mat (see above)

  • Shoes that slip easily on and off and sneakers (if you want to do any hiking)

  • Water bottle

  • Toiletries (shampoo, soap, toothpaste, etc.)

  • Hair dryer (if you use one)

  • Small flashlight or headlamp to get around at night

  • Camera (optional)

Clothing Attire                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Bring what you would wear to a spa or the gym.  We want you to feel comfortable while you are there. The weather varies, so bring items that you can layer.  

Gifts for Others                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              This is completely optional, but in the past some women have brought small gifts to give to the other women. It doesn't have to be something you purchase - it can be a poem, card, something hand-made. Sometimes it represents the local culture or environment where you live. We have 10 women + 3 facilitators.

Resources and Book Swap We will create a resource area for you to put out materials as well as any books you’d like to swap. Totally optional.

Food
All meals are provided by the retreat center.  The menu will be guided by the seasonal vegetables and fruits that are available. Our goal is to create nourishing and comforting meals. We will eat 3 full meals a day, but if you feel the need to bring extra snacks, please do so.

SunWater Spa & Massages - You need to book now!                                                                                                                                                                               We all have a COMPLIMENTARY 2-HOUR SOAK in a mineral water cedar soaking tub during our free time at SunWater Spa.

In addition for an additional cost, you can arrange for a massage at the Sun Water Spa during our free time (3:00 - 6:30 pm both Friday and Saturday). Visit the SunWater Spa website to make your reservation. Discount (10%) code on spa services: SMSPA

Alcohol and Drugs                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        There will be no alcohol or drugs allowed at the retreat. This is a time dedicated to deep emotional work, and use of these substances would be unhelpful in this process. In addition, smoking is not allowed at the retreat center. If you do need to smoke, they request that you do so in the parking lot, away from the main retreat center structures.

Possibility of pregnant women                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Though the Return to Zero Healing Retreat is a retreat for women who have experienced the death of their babies, please understand there is a possibility that some women may be pregnant while at the retreat. We ask that you mentally prepare yourself for this if you feel like it may have an effect on you, and we also ask that these women be treated with non-judgment and compassion.